Dose my dad have the right to do this.?

well when i was at a sleep over he got my phone and he read all my tex that i sent out and i have got from other people and all the ones i sent had bad words so he took it away then i was talking to me friend who was at my house and said the b and f word then he said that her mom was here then when she was gone he said go to your room and i said no then he said NOW and i went 10 minuets later he came in and said i told you 3 times you may not cuss and you still do it so now you may get your mouth wash out i said no i will stop and he did it and fyi ivory soap is nasty and hard to get out of your mouth i am 12 and yes he did tell me not talk like that