Qu about toys.....?

It's not cheating but it probably would be hurtful to your husband if you sneak around behind his back. Some guys are really insecure about toys so my recommendation would be go with a small toy like the pocket rocket and have him take part in using it. So many of the toys out there nowadays are molded from male stars so your average guy could easily be intimidated if you brought one of those home. The only other advice I would give is don't make the toy a requirement in every ual encounter you and your husband have. This could also make him feel like he alone can't satisfy you anymore.